To Be Or Not To Be: The Road to Success
Who is one of the best football players in the world at this very moment in time? Who is the global football icon that most people are able to associate with? If you are in the loop, your answer would be Cristiano Ronaldo.
Cristiano Ronaldo, born 1985, is a Portuguese football superstar who was first introduced to the 'beautiful game' at the tender age of 10 and it was noted that even at that age, he was already a phenomenon. He was born to play football. In 2001, he made his professional debut for Sporting Lisbon, one of the top teams in the Portuguese Football League. It was there that he started turning heads at all over the world with his mesmerizing footwork and explosive dribbling. At just 18 years of age, he attracted the attention of footballing giants Manchester United who saw enough and parted with 12million pounds in 2003 for this services, a world record for his age at the time.
It was at Manchester United under the tutelage of Sir Alex Ferguson that Ronaldo truly blossomed as a player, transforming from a scrawny teenager to the physical specimen that he is today. In his time with Manchester United, he helped the team to 3 Premier League titles, an FA Cup, 2 Carling Cups, a Community Shield, a Club World Cup and the highly sought after UEFA Champions League. He also gathered many personal accolades including the Ballon d'Or which is an award that recognised the world's best player for the year.
In 2009, he transferred to Real Madrid for a world record fee of 80million pounds and has been there since winning many titles and even more accolades including a second Ballon d'Or award.
Right Here Right Now: Ronaldo celebrating a goal
On the flip side, we have another player deemed to have a bright future and was rated even better than Ronaldo at the same age. His name, was Ricardo Quaresma.
Quaresma, born 1983, 2 years older than Ronaldo was and also a Portuguese wonder kid that was developed through the same prestigious footballing academy as Ronaldo at Sporting Lisbon. He too was a dazzling winger and was said to be Portugal's beacon of hope in world football. In the summer of 2003, Ronaldo was shipped to Manchester United and Quaresma was sold to Barcelona FC, another top footballing club. While Ronaldo ascended to god-like levels under the supervision of Sir Alex Ferguson, Quaresma's career took a downward spiral as inconsistent performances and a poor attitude led to limited first team opportunities and a falling out with then Barcelona coach Frank Rjikaard. Quaresma even so far as to say that he would never play for Barcelona while Rjikaard was the manager which many thought as very arrogant behaviour.
Quaresma's career was littered with chaos and fallouts, at one point even being accused of urinating on a kit- man at his club and flashing a female member of the staff, and he has moved to many clubs wishing to test their luck on resurrecting his genius and his career. All have failed, with the exception of Porto between 2004-2008 where he performed at a better rate while being coddled by the manager Jesualdo Ferreira. In the year 2008, when his compatriot Cristiano Ronaldo was being awarded the Ballon d'Or for his outstanding performances that season, Quaresma was awarded the Bidone D'oro, known as 'The Golden Trash Can', an award that is given to the worst new arrival of the season in the notorious Italian League, the Serie A.
Quaresma was very well known for his trivela shot/pass. A technique using the outside of your boot to create curl on the ball. This earned him the nickname 'Trivela'
Two wonder kids, both from the same academy,both deemed to be the future of Portuguese football, but both with very contrasting outcomes in their career. What happened to Ricardo Quaresma? Why was he unable to emulate the achievements of Ronaldo? It is obvious the physically both are regarded as naturally talented so to answer these questions, one must delve into the psychology behind the players.
What separates the flops from the stars? One of the key psychological factors that coaches believe to be important in the development of players in mental toughness, however, only a small minority of athletes are actually able to develop the mental toughness to be great players. Mental toughness is said to be the key difference between athletes that get to that top level of their games, and the ones that actually maintain that level of performance and stay there. It is something that highlights the ability of players to perform on the big stage and their ability to work through transitional periods without suffering to their own performance. It has been suggested that a mentally tough athlete is one that is has a high sense of self belief and an unwavering faith in themselves and their abilities understand and comprehend mental toughness, you have to visualise and break it down into the 4 Cs; Control, Commitment, Challenge and most importantly, Confidence. These are the 4 Cs of Mental Toughness and form the basis of the theory.
Control is the desire of an athlete to be the masters of their own fate, the captains of their destiny. It is the desire to be in complete control of their experience rather than feel helpless and powerless in their situation. It is simply the tendency to feel influential.
Every top athlete understands that they need to be committed to the game and their respective clubs. However, true commitment is one where a player proactively involves himself in the experience as opposed to just accepting or withdrawing from the situation. It is not enough to just go along with the ride, one must actually have the desire to do it themselves.
Without adversity and hurdles, you will never learn from your mistakes and better yourself. Challenge is the acknowledgement of the tough times that you may face and embracing it to help the stimulation of personal development rather than settling into a routine and tapering off.
This is defined as a high sense of self belief and the unwavering faith in one's abilities on the road to success. Although all Cs are equally as important, confidence is ultimately what separates a mentally tough athlete and one that just has hardiness to their character.