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The EX Factor

When did:
the EX become such a factor to some people? I feel as though if they are
your EX then they are an EXample of what you don’t want the next
person to be. What made them your EX? Is it that they had the qualities
that you were looking for in the beginning but didn’t really stay consistent
with? OR did they just fuck you over? You know how people are amazing in the
first 9-12 weeks of getting to know them, they do all the right things to please
you and make you happy. Then after awhile that diminishes, once they know they
got you in their back pocket. You will deal with the most random bullshit that
they throw at you and still stick around just because they “make you happy” or
you “don’t know what to do without them.” The real reason you don’t want to
leave is because you feel comfortable and they got you to that level. Once you
feel comfortable you never want to leave someone no matter how bad they hurt
you. You will accept anything they throw at you because you think that someone
else won’t want you at all. Trust me you are 100% wrong. Know your worth before
you get into anything with anybody. Do not allow them to destroy your
self-esteem . . . it is called SELF-esteem for a reason. Move on with life, do
you and find something better.

When did the EX become such a
factor for some people?

Random situation that a couple of my
friends have been through:
Have you ever been in that situation where
someone you’re talking too just abruptly just leaves the “getting to know”
relationship you guys had and just disappears without a trace? Come to find out
they went back to their EX who they constantly BASH and had a falling out
with, but there OFFICIALLY back together? The crazy thing about this, is that you
wasted a couple months getting to know them and spent hours with them. Then when
they just up and disappear they don’t do the grown up thing, which is talk to
you about it or give you an explanation. In my mind this is wrong, especially if
you don’t even talk to the person and just leave. Sometimes you can’t understand
why people do things; you just have to understand that life has its lessons. If
you don’t completely END something with an EX then sometimes
moving on is hard. People love that comfortable feeling with their EX’s
that why they still consider their EX a factor in their
lives.

“You have to let go of your EX to receive your next and that
will be your best. You can’t embrace the future while clinging to the
past.”

Thoughts of a Random Guy...

Author: Kevin Pierre